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anonymous
writes:ok i really don't know what to do. so i'll start from the beginning. there is this lad that has liked me for 4 years and we recently ended up together he was really sweet and told all his mates that i was the one and we had a great time, but we rarely saw each other so i ended it, then the weekend after we finished he kissed one of my best mates so when i next went out and he was there i ignored him and then a friend of mine came up to me and told me that he was meeting one of my other best mates (bear in mind we had only been split up for 2 weeks) but he dumped her that night. anyway we talked outside about and he told me that he finshed with her because i found out and he didnt want me to know and we ended up going home toghether. we didnt see each other for about 6 months and in that time he started meeting the friend he had before and i was totally crushed. but obviously didnt show it because i did finish him, and in time he finished her again but she still likes him.So we went out last week and he kept talking to me and wouldnt leave me alone and tried it on with me so i told my best friend because everyone saw and i wanted to be the one who told her and she confronted him and swore he never did. i feel so confused he says he likes me but what am i meant to do.
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reader, GenuineGirl +, writes (14 March 2010):
It's sounds like he loves to be in control of a girl, and if you've been out with him previously and you two are on good terms, he thinks that you're still attracted to him and wants to make you jealous to see how you react. Chances are he is playing along with your friend, and if he is it's going to hurt her in the long run if you say that she likes him. And if he lies to her about you and vice versa, he's not worth choosing over your friend. Best thing to do is you and your friend don't hang out with him. Friendship should be more priority over a guy trying to play you two off against each other.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 March 2010):
Ignore him, he's an idiot. And just continue to reassure your friend that you're not interested in him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): dont do anything
just ignore him and tell your friend that theres nothing between you and him.
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