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writes:Ok so i am a person who think that is wonderful. But yet i am still a virgin. I dont know what it is but i want sex so bad. Some people tell me that if i have to think about then i am not ready. Because me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 1 year and a half friday. So we both talk about sex. And i told him that i was not ready and he respects that. I have kept him waiting for awhile. I want and he wants it but im still not sure can some please help me with this. The question is should i have sex with him or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): I think you should wait some more if he truely loves you he will wait as many years as you need him to. I lost mine quite young and thought I was ready but now I look back i wish that i had waited much longer. If you still are asking your self if your ready means your not. Having sex may not be a big deal to most people but think about why they think it probs because they didnt wait long enough and it wasnt good for them. Make sure if you do your 100% sure and it special also please remember birth control xx good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): Maybe try something in between? My boyfriend and I use to dry hump when we were teenagers and it felt amazing.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 March 2010):
Certainly if you're still unsure, then you're not ready. And I don't think you're old enough legally either. Take your time and really think. There is no rush.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 Not yet, give it till the point when you know for sure that it is what you want. You'll have the feeling where none of the possible negative side effects matter because you love this person. You'll be hesitant for your first time, there is no way around that. Just think about the entire situation and you will know if you are truely ready or not.
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