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writes:We are a happily married couple with a healthy sex life. My husband has mentioned during almost every love making session that he would want me to have sex with another man. He expresses an interest in threesomes (DP), watching me have sex with another man, and watching another man or couple watch us have sex in their/his presense. I was initially repulsed and shocked by his fantasy, but I must admit that the feeling of dislike was short lived, and I started to think about it too. It seems very kinky and adventurous. My husband loves me dearly, and I would do anything to please him. He is an awesome lover, and he brings up this subject during such key moments during our love making, that I find myself getting doubly turned on by the thought of being used by another man. I have told my husband that if it ever happens, I would only do an anal with the other guy. Should I give my husband the green light?
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (23 January 2010):
 Look at it from a different angle. Stop thinking so much about if HE will enjoy it... as how much you may or may not enjoy it. Something else to consider is sex clubs (if there are such things in your area) or 'swapping' with other couples. It's probably best to keep it anonymous so that the two of you do not get attached to the third/fourth parties. Perhaps setup something on-line with willing participants and then meet them at a hotel._IF_ you persue this...You BOTH need to be VERY CLEAR and OPEN with each other as to how it will/not affect your relationship and or affect the other person... and what ground rules - if any - should be followed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2010): Perhaps some things are better left as a fantasy. It might turn him and you on to think about it. But when you aren't already aroused try thinking about the reality of having sex with a random man and your husband just watching. Would he then expect you to watch him with another woman?A lot of good relationships can be damaged by such activities/
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (22 January 2010):
 i dont understand that!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 January 2010):
Many couples have made the mistake of doing this, thinking they can handle it. What happens if you really like the other guy and start and affair? What happens if your husband actually realizes he doesn't like it? This might be something better left as a fantasy.
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