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anonymous
writes:I just want your opinion.i've been with her 3 months at first she said she had 3 sexual partners before me.one month she went to a party with her ex bf, i was fine with this. Then she wanted to go out in his car after the party i said no obviously.. and she didn't the next night she went out in his car without telling me obv.. i was a bit pissed but i got over it and i told her to never do it again.then around 2 weeks after this i found out about 2 other sexual partners she was with before me... so that would be 5.. i confronted her about this and she admitted to 11 alltogether.. thats abit to much tbh.. and makes me feel kinda ill thinking about it still now.Anyway, recently i found out myself by looking in her facebook inbox she went round her ex bfs just before xmas, she tried to lie her way out of this but eventually she said she did and that she was only there .. for 5 minutes.. this was the guy i told her never to see again if she wanted to be with me.. anyway she started cryin, saying she dunno why she did it bla bla blai just needed to get this off my chest, and had nobody else to talk about it with.am i taking to much shit off this girl? should i leave her or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2010): Had a girlfriend once visit her ex without telling me as well. I called it off as soon as I found out that it occurred more than once. I advise you to cut your losses and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2010): well you'd better off without her.
apparently this relationship already started on lies and cheating. and now threats.
the longer it goes, the worst it is going to be.
get out when you have the chance.
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (22 January 2010):
 tbh, i think your being a bit unfair on her. Threating to leave if she doesnt do something? Threats always end a relationship either way it goes.I say have a big talk about the situation, but no threats.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (22 January 2010):
 Yea dude.break up with her
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