A
female
age
30-35,
*ptonGirl
writes:Today i broke up with my long boyfriend called Sean who lives in ireland and who is the same age as me and i got asked out by a boy that goes to my school and he is called Fraser. Fraser was one of my ex boyfriends in the past and broke my heart a few times by dumping me in locker room in front of our friends and ripping my valentines day card i got for him when he got home. but he has changed now so i`m giving him another chance.Sean has only just got out of hospital and he really loves me and would do anything for me and is always there for me but he lives far away. Earlier on tonight i was talking to him and he said that he hasn`t been able to stop thinking about me and he showed a pic of me to his parents and they said i was very very beautiful.Did i Make the Right Decision To Leave Sean for Fraser ? please help ??
View related questions:
broke up, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Miss King ! +, writes (22 January 2010):
 I agree, the guy that was mean to you infront of your friends sounds horrible and hurtful. I wouldnt trust him again!!!
As for Sean, sounds like he does really like you, the trouble is, can you cope with him being so far away?? Maybe you can't and that's why you have decided to give this other guy a chance, that he didnt really deserve. I think it would be cruel to tell Sean you're having second thoughts as he may expect you to get back together with him again.
It's tricky, but you need to remember that its not just your feelings that matter its those of the people around you, if you have already upset sean before you wouldnt want to put him through it again, try and remain friends with him as it will be good for both of you.
Good luck hun! x x
A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 January 2010):
I would suggest to you that neither of these guys is right for you. Sadly, Sean just lives too far away, and if you split with him for your ex, then that shows he's not the one. As for your ex, you're playing a dangerous game with your own heart there. This is a guy who was so callous he dumped you in front of your friends, and even ripped your valentines card up. Don't expect anything much from him. If it should go wrong with him again, you would do better to leave guys alone for a while and really focus on your own life.
...............................
|
