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*eee
writes:Hey , i think that "guys" would help me in this case.im talking to a guy that uses the statement " i like u" frequently , and that he's afraid of committment.so im getting attached to him because we talk on daily basis. although i know that i should let go !and when we first talked i was so rude, i used to be mean in every single way and he continued talking with me and say u hurt me but i really admire u..and i tried not to talk to him but he went crazy, and he insisted thats we should talk, but i dont wanna like someone who's a player, cause he's like ,i like you and i want us to go for a date and then its like your my friend..i just need a sign..i told him if im gona talk to you should be straight forward and not saying i like u and bla bla, cause im afraid to believe him and then there's nothing!So plz just tell me what should i do ?!!
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reader, Deee +, writes (22 January 2010):
Deee is verified as being by the original poster of the question well i just want to make things clear, im nt having sex with that guy, which is against my beliefs.All im saying is that he say he likes me and everything but he was forced by his parents to get engaged and he's only 23 so he left his gf when he started talking to me because he didnt even love her.. and he kept saying that he liked me coz am different but he's afraid of commitment due to what his parents did.. so the problem is that im scared that im gona believe him in that "stage of fear" because i dont like the way he repeats the statement "i like u" i feel its not honest but he wants me to believe that its honest.. and i tried to let go but he's not allowing me!so i just dont know wt to dothanks
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reader, Deee +, writes (22 January 2010):
Deee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmmm yeah it makes sense, thanks sweets!
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