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41-50,
anonymous
writes:How many men could accept the fact that they are returning to a relationship to which they feel that their wife has been with someone more manly than themselves while separated, even though their spouse may have changed things about themselves for the better? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (23 January 2010):
 Well, unless you tell your husband that the guy you were seeing last had a bigger penis than he does, I don't see how he would find out. The vagina is an amazing organ. It can accomidate a baby and then shrink down to its original size. I doubt if your ex b/f stretched you out (so to speak). So, unless you go out of your way to inform him that he isn't measuring up, he will never know.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2010): If she left me to get with someone "manlier" (penis or otherwise) then I would be through with her. I don't care how much she might change her mind in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes manly is bigger penis
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (22 January 2010):
Explain more "manly". Do you mean bigger penis? Or does more manly things like watch football, fix cars, grunt....
Jeff
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (22 January 2010):
 Like women, men do not like to be used. For whatever reason the woman left him to go build herself by experimenting with different men. For some reason thinking he would wait for her.
There are submissive men who would accept this. Submissive men are culturally disadvantaged therefor they are rare. In the end if both partners feel strongly that the other man was indeed superior then the returning relationship will not last long. She will be off looking for new adventures, or he will be depressed or suspicious to the point of wrecking the relationship.
It may work for a time as a fantasy or as a kink. but the novelty will wear off.
From my point of view It doesn't look good.
FA
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 January 2010):
I've never been in this situation. I am a believer that ex's should be left in the past. They're an ex for a reason. Insecure men can become jealous though, and many might feel undermined if they think a woman has been with a stronger man, or a more 'manly' man. There will be a lot of comparisons, jealousy and questions. It depends on how this particular man is. If he's strong for himself, he'll be fine. If he's insecure, he won't.
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