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He never followed up on our date plans the first time. Is he reliable?

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Question - (22 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this guy and we clicked instantly and have TONS of chemistry we chatted for a while and i gave him my number and were suppose to hangout. We talked over the course of about almost a week for hours @ a time . We set up a plan to have our date but he never followed up on it. So i forgot about him and he was just leading me on. Then a couple of days ago he IMs me and asks why i dont IM him anymore. Long story short we started talkn and fell back to the same old routine. When I get to talk to him again how do i make him know im really interested? (he knows i just got out of a relationship)

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A male reader, IHateWomanBeaters United States +, writes (25 January 2010):

IHateWomanBeaters agony aunteven with the most beautiful women, i call and leave a voicemail. I then wait 2 days or so and then I text.

If they don't call I don't talk to them ever again.

Don't waste your time.

You come up with a time to meet(him) or you forget it.

He has chosen to forget.

Forget him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2010):

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Yes that could be the case HateWomanBeaters , but i doubt it lol. weve post poned this date soooooo many times and the same routine has been going on for a year now. We always have schedule conflicts and he calls me for a few days and calls when he say he does, but all of a sudden it stops! NO more contact! Then i start to think hes lost interest? Weve never been ona date b4 but we have very strong chemistry. I regret not getting his house number. But i also think maybe hes taken? and has a girlfriend?

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A male reader, IHateWomanBeaters United States +, writes (22 January 2010):

IHateWomanBeaters agony auntUmmmmmmm

This sounds eerily like something that happened with me.

I met this girl that I really liked that was 18-21.

We went on 3 dates in one week, and she was the only girl i have actually liked.

I didn't follow up on the 4th date, because i forgot. I know that sounds stupid. I swear to god it was an accident.

I imed her and called once i think afterwards with no response.

Our 4th date was supposed to be a PETA protest of NASA experiments involving monkeys.

I honestly believe he is just a forgetful dumby.

That is the way I am.

-Vincenzo

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2010):

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No i didnt ask him why he didnt show up. he deosnt have a cell just house number and i dont have it. so he just calls me

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