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Is he metro or is he gay?

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Question - (13 September 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I just recently started dating this guy hes very metro gets his eyebrows done which is fine! has to clean all the time he has ocd with cleaning the hous everyday.. he says hes a virgin and everygirl he dated broke up with him cuz he wouldnt have sex with them..His best friend even looks gay but isnt he has a gf as well.. his best friend sleeps at his house and they sleep on the same bed..MY bf's older brother is gay.. i feel like my boyfriend is either bi or just really wants to be straight i cant even tell..like you would think it would be easy to spot a gay guy but guess not..IDK anymore.. he tells me hes crazy about me blah blah.. one time i told him when i 1st met him i thought he was gay..he gets mad.. Hes scared of gay people...

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (13 September 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntor a freak?

The guy got issues, lots of them.

Shares a bed with a man but is scared of gay people?

Are you looking for a boyfriend or a project?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008):

Well regardless of whether he is gay how will you feel when he won't have sex with you either? If he hasn't with past girlfriends chances are there that he won't want to with you either.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2008):

Does he like musicals?

No I'm joking, people seem to think that once you decide you are gay you start lisping and wearing pink and loving small dogs.

You can be gay and be a rough tough guy, and you can be straight and wax your eyebrows and be ocd about cleaning.

Why won't he have sex with girls? It could be he's just saving himself for marriage.

If things are fine between you then just leave him to do what he's doing. It is really causing problems, or only in your head.

Enjoy being with him.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, snoop29 United States +, writes (13 September 2008):

snoop29 agony auntwow that does seem REALLY complicated! lol... but too me he sounds like he is either Bi or like u said trying really hard to be straight. but i highly doubt he is STRAIGHT with all those things u said bout him...

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