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30-35,
*asierToFallThanToForget
writes:Ok...I dated this guy for six weeeks but then just broke up with him...i didn't really have a reason and i had been slowly pulling away for about a week. I do this for all my relationships...i date them for a week or two and then i pull away....i act in way that i know will end the relationship....i basically just act like a bad girlfriend...i dont hug them, kiss them, say ily or anything like that. However i REALLY liked this guy and in fact lasted longer with him than i have with any other relationships. I just dont know what to do. I am SICK of sabataging all my relationships but i dont know how to stop....plus i still really likemt his guy and i want him back...but i don't want to risk doing it again....hes a really good friend and i'm afriad if i did it again i would loose his friendship and i dont think i would be able to take loosing my bf an one of my best friends all at once.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): i do exaclty the same!
Ive learnt its that im scared of sex.. in a weird sort of way i dont want to be used for sex..
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 September 2008):
Perhaps you just need to be single for a while. If you have had this many boyfriends at 17 then you probably haven't had a chance to just be your self rather than "a girlfriend."
Get your head together for a bit, concentrate on who you are and what you want from life for a bit and then you can work on becoming that person. When you next go into a relationship after that you will probably have the confidence to stick it out rather than lose yourself and become half them and then run away.
Good Luck!! xx
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