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writes:Has anyone got any experience of two friends, one in an unrequited love position, where the other eventually feels more back?Have you ever not initially felt that attraction then changed?My friend has just been dumped by his partner. I am 7 years older than he is and she was 15 years younger. When our friendship started it was from a dating web site 18 months ago and we have been firm platonic friends since and he always wants to see me, but never made a move for anything sexual. His ex partner is in another country. I just want to hug him so tight to comfort his pain, but although he admits there has been a sexual energy between us, we have always put it to one side as a condition of our friendship and his loyalty to his partner. Help!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 September 2008):
He's on the rebound.
I went out with someone who was my best friend, basically because all along he wanted more and eventually I gave in. It lasted 3 years and then ended and we haven't spoken since, which is a shame.
You can get together with him if you like but it might ruin your friendship and t might be really intense for a while and then end completely.
You don't say what your feelings are. Don't get with him if you don't have feelings for him as it will only hurt him in the long run.
Good Luck!! xx
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