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Should I date him to prove to my Mum he isn't bad??

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Question - (13 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *lovecalhoun34 writes:

hi.

So, im a freshman and im fourteen and i like this senior whos seventeen and will be turning eighteen shortly. He likes me back and he wants to start hanging out with me outside of school.

We talk alot and we text message non stop. but i brought up the idea of dating a senior to my mom and she said that no way she would approve of tha but i really like him. So what am i supposed to do; date him and not tell my mom or prove to her that he's really not bad? i need help please ! thanks.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008):

My sister was 14 and dating an 18 year old.

He was a good bloke (nutcase at driving though). It didn't last, but there were no ill-feelings or bad experiences for them.

There is nothign wrong with you dating, ust make sure ground rules are set and that you abide by them

Infact why not let your parents keep an eye on you two by inviting him for dinner. This way you can prove to them that you can deal with this in a responsible manner.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, n00dl35 United States +, writes (14 September 2008):

n00dl35 agony aunthmm, why would a senior want a freshman? think about it. usually older guys think that little girls are easy and just go for them to get in their pants. you know, your mother could be right and she's just trying to look out for you. i don't think dating him is a good idea!

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