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writes:I went home for Labor Day weekend and saw my ex from high school (we dated for 2 1/2 yrs) we were pretty hot and serious then, but then we broke up when we both left for college. We stayed in touch for about 8 months but then I started dating someone else and it broke his heart and he never talked to me agian. Well I dated that same person for 5 years and we broke up 8 months ago. My best friend ran into my ex at a bar up there and ended up getting me his number a couple weeks prior so I called him and we talked. It was great. So naturally when I went up there I called him and we met for drinks and ended up hooking up for the weekend. And it was GREAT! Everything was wonderful it was like 5 years apart hadn't happened. But then Monday came and I had to go home (about 4 hrs away) he hugged me and kissed me goodbye and said that he'd come visit in a couple of weeks, and I could feel that he still loves me it was very intense and strong. But then I called him later that week and he never called me back, then I called him agian the next week and agian no return call. I'm not going to call him agian, but what the hell is up? This is driving me crazy and I don't know what I should do.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (13 September 2008):
 You were probably hoping to rekindle your romance and start where you left off.
But you said "it broke his heart"..meaning you broke his heart and to him, he's not going to let you back in because there is a chance you will break it again.
He probably met up to catch up on good times, but not looking for anything more. He is giving you clear hints and you should take it for what it is. Don't listen to what he says...but what he does.
Move on, sometimes the past is better left off in the past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): I can't believe that after breaking his heart and then beginning a new relationship with someone new for five years....you think that he's just going to fall back into your arms. I don't mean to be blunt but it sounds like he got what he wanted now he's left you alone...stop contacting him...if he wants to talk he will call...im sure he knows that you called by now.
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