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Planning an evening out for my birthday - would it do any harm to go to the bar "he" frequents? This will make it clearer that I like him.

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Question - (13 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *lison210 writes:

I need abit of advice with small problem. Well there's this bloke who i know and well we do flirt and he has told me where he goes for a drink well we don't get to spend much time together because he's working a lot

well a friend of mine said well in few weeks it's your birthday so why don't we go into the pub were he is and have a drink at least then the two of you could chat without him always being in hurry i said well it would be nice but do you think that he might be a bit uncomfortable with me being in there not having been in there before

i know when you like someone you have to risk it don't you but i don't want to make it uncomfortable for him after all his mates will be in there but a couple of them have already met me they know who i am, would do any harm i know he will have good idea why i've gone in but could it do any harm.

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A male reader, saltwater United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2008):

saltwater agony auntPersonally, I wouldn't. It will mean your birthday will be hampered by your fixation of this guy; there's a danger you will focus too much on trying to talk to this guy rather than focusing on enjoying your birthday!

And anyway, if it's your birthday you'll probably get completely smashed and end up embarrassing yourself in front of him!

Why don't you just go up to him at any other time and just offer him a drink or something?

Doing it on your birthday don't seem wise to me.

Take care

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