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writes:I'm 13 and one of my best friends has suddenly gone off with her old best friend. Me and a few of my other friends do something called Body Combat and my old best friend was there watching and taking the mick out of us with her two new best friends. The new best friend is a proper bitch and my old best friend is completely different around her, she's not a nice person at all. I don't want to be friends with her again but her new best friend is being really horrible to me on MSN making remarks about my weight and it's really hurtful. I always get into school early and it's normally just the three of them there and there's no one else to sit with, I can't get into school any later because my mum works there and she has to get into school early, so I have to go with her. I really need help with how to deal with this or how to lose weight really quickly without doing more exercise than I already do. Any useful advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks, B x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): okay, if she just ditched you for that old best friend shes not a friend! you sound like a sweet person and it angers me when i see people who bring others down just to bring themselves up! and im not saying to pick a fight or pick out her flaws, but i am saying just ignore her i know thats what everyone says to do but honestly no matter what they say to you IGNORE THEM! if they want to be rude and hurtful carma will come their way eventually i used to be made fun of by a group of guys they always called me fat as well but i am just as skinny as almost everyone in my school. you know whats funny though, it still got to me. but day after day after day i ignored them and pritty soon theyl get tiered and maybe even irratated if you make new friends. just try it and see what happens,
take care!
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reader, cheekyme +, writes (18 September 2008):
 Well, this lass who is making horrible remarks about your weight is obviously one of those selfish, stuck up, bitchy people, who to be honest needs a slap. She's only saying these things because she know's they get to you and hurt you. so if You dont let them get to you and you show then that what they say dosnt hurt you (even if it does try your best not to let it show), they will stop and when they insult you lauhg in thier face at how perthetic they are being and they will soon get bored of themselves and stop.Now you have seen your old mate for how she really is and your lucky you got away from her :)well anyway good luck and i hope them girls stop :)x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. You're all so brilliant. She's stuck up her own bottom so I just replied to her 'you think you're better than everyone else when you're not' she's not said anything since, maybe that's because I've blocked her but anyway. Thanks a lot guys. x B
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reader, graciie; +, writes (14 September 2008):
dude, like dont let her take control of you,
you know that they are weak and just insucure and all when they can come up with is insults on appearences.
you dont need to change your self for someone else, its the wrong reaosn too, its only if you want to ya'know?
no one else should have that right over you,
'fat' is just a pathetic word,
i wouldnt let morons like that get you down,
there wasters :)
xo
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reader, shiraz +, writes (13 September 2008):
hiyah this happens a lot! and the advice youve been offered already sums it up! just try not to let this affect you and who you are. shes only saying these things to have an affect on you and it is! dont let it show and carry on being yourself! dont ever change for nobody if your comfortable the way you are then thats all that matters shes probably saying all these things knowing they will hurt you so dont let it! when you go into school carry on doing your own thing never minding about them at least now youve seen your old mate for who she really is and yur lucky you werent sucked into it! best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Emily. You really put it into perspective. Thanks x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 September 2008):
Ok so first of all you don't have to have these people saying things to you on MSN. Right click and then block her. So that is that problem solved.
Secondly you don't have to sit with them early in the mornings. You are not a sheep, you don't need to huddle with other people for protection.
Sit by yourself and do some homework or take a book.
You probably don't have to lose weight at all. If you are doing body combat and eating healthily then you don't need to do anything more.
This girl is only calling you fat because she knows it hurts you. If that doesn't work, she's tell you that you were too tall / short / geeky / whatever. She's a bitch, she lies.
When she makes a comment just laugh at how childish she's being and get on with what ever you are doing till one of your real friends arrives.
Good Luck!! xx
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