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Is she legal or could I get in trouble?

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Question - (13 September 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, *abbir writes:

hallo !

i need some advice. so, please help me out here. i am 22 and my girl friend is 17 years and 9 months. she will be 18 next 3 months. we have been going out for 3 years. do you think it is illegal or I could be in trouble for it. just for your info we never had any sex. we just hang out, shopping together and watch movies and other stuff. but never done that sex part. we live in VA do u think if police find it out...i could be in trouble?

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A male reader, sabbir United States +, writes (14 September 2008):

sabbir is verified as being by the original poster of the question

sabbir agony auntthank you so much everybody who took their time to read my question and spent time to give me some valuable opinion or advice. i am thankful to each of you. thanks again.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008):

looking at emilys answer i assume the legal age over there to have sex is 18!?

either way, if you havent had sex then theres no reason you should get into trouble, and as long as (as snoop and emily have already said) her parents are happy with you being together theres no problem.

good luck x

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2008):

I really don't think movies and shopping are illegal...

There is only going to be trouble if she or her parents accuses you of molesting her and goes to the police. And then she'd get examined and the doctor would say "no sex here!" and you'd be fine.

As long as the police don't catch you at it in the next 3 months then you are fine.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, snoop29 United States +, writes (13 September 2008):

snoop29 agony auntWell iv never heard that it was against the law. I mean with ur age difference its not really a big deal if her parents dont have a problem with it i would think your in the clear especially if your not sexually active.

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