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writes:I want to initiate phone sex very gently to see if my male friend responds. I have never done it before and would like advice on what can be said. He told me he was reduced to tears at the extent of the intimacy he reached with his ex and I wondered if anyone here has had the same experience of what could be said to make someone feel that emotion.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (14 September 2008):
 Fair enough. Then I would say that your best bet is to do as one of the other responders said and tease him and see how it goes. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): Dear Poster
I suggest you start teasing him over the phone;(maybe by text messages to begin if you are scared or nervous); flirt with him; and be a little "suggestive"; monitor his response and then take it from there.
If he is going along well; allow your imagination to take over.
Enjoy and have FUN.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDazzera. My question sounds superficial, but I have an unusual relationship with my friend in that we can talk about anything face to face but I know he likes phone sex but I don't know how to drop it in. We already have an emotional intimacy and share many personal things, but not a sexual one and because we have been friends, crossing that line is so risky and I have never lead either. I am not trying to have just sex, I really care about him a lot.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (13 September 2008):
I'm a bit confused as to what you want to initiate. If it's phone sex then I would suggest gentle probing and starting talking about what you are wearing and seeing how responsive he is and go from there.
Intimacy can be something slightly different because as a concept it is wider than sex. Intimacy is something that comes with time, with talking to each other about not just the normal every day stuff but at a deeper level about feelings, emotions and thoughts. That comes with time although you might want to take the lead by expressing some of the above that you hold and seeing if he will be willing to follow your lead.
Good luck.
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