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writes:I am 14 and i wanna know why am i attracted to naked men before naked women. I have absolutly now feeling for men at all i just get horny to sum of them, i look at gay porn and masterbate to it but after that gayness takes a left i don't have feelings or seeing myself with a boy. It's certain girls i like at school and want to date them but no boys. Why am i so attracted to their bodies? I don't have feeling for boys just their bodies. Will i grow out of this phase? I began looking at lesbian porn and triedd to get use to it because i hate the idea of being with another boy. I want a girl, will i leave this gay porn phase?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): First you should stop watching the gay porn,b/c as time goes on I think that you'll wont men more and more.You like there bodys b/c they have muscles,look strong,and maybe you like the thought of them protecting you.You like girls then I would sugest blocking it close your eyes and put in a random password and press ok the moment you do it you may regret it for the month but after a while you'll forget about it but the images will still pop up time to time,and you'll have to think of something else and not give into thows temptations.
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reader, shadycrazy  +, writes (14 September 2008):
well naked men are more related to masturbation then naked women, allot of guys feel this way, it could be more of a fetish to you rather than a real sexual orientation
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reader, littlesuziepie +, writes (14 September 2008):
 I think you may actually be attracted to men but are to young to understand the feelings. You probably think you want to be with a girl because its what is so called normal.
Plus girls remind men of their mothers. Safe soft and smell good. Its security to men that are close to their moms.
That's why you desire a woman in a relationship but are turned on sexually by a man. Once your older and can detach from your parents and become your own person the answers will come to you easier. its actually not uncommom for men to be married to women but have sex with other men. I don't agree with that but it does happen.
What ever you do just relax and don't make any solid plans on sex or a relationship right now. Its not something you have to figure out right now. You have plenty of time to get to know who you really are and don't be hard on yourself.
Take things as they come.
Look up Info online or talk to a doctor if your really worried. But hey your normal and your feelings are normal. Your not the only person ever to deal with it and may find that all of your views on things may change in the next few years.
I wish you well.
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reader, graciie;  +, writes (14 September 2008):
everyone questions there sexuality at one point,
it could just be a phase or not.
or maybe your bi ya'know?
nout to be ashamed of,
your young and all your just finding yourself,
xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): Attraction and sexual orientation is about sexual/physical attraction. You may grow out of it and maybe you won't. Wanting to date girls isn't going to make yourself attracted to them. You're 14 so just step back, try not to think about it and see where your feelings are when you're a bit older.
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