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*ielo_Alice
writes:Actually I have this problem about age gap. We met only at chat room and we have very similar hobbies and interest. And we find that endearing. Here's the problem we are 23 years apart. That's my big problem. For me its ok if my guy is 5-15 years age gap. I don't know about my case. Please help me before I fall for him completely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): You are a legal adult.
Not all middle-aged men are monsters, it IS possible that he likes you and did so by chance.
So go and meet him if you will.
Just remember that he may indeed be a predator, so be ready for that if he is.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): The guy just wants sex. He does not care about you, he just has a physical desire he is trying to fill. He is most likely married. Don't be stupid, he is feeding you a line of crap. He is playing you. Tell him he is a creep and needs to go look in the mirror, go rent a porn and go have sex with himself. He will not lose any sleep over you, trust me.
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (13 September 2008):
 Saltwater gave a good answer.
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reader, saltwater +, writes (13 September 2008):
 I'm assuming this chat room is one aimed at teens/people in early 20's and that you haven't met him yet; but to me I think it's dubious that a man 23 years older than you is in a chat room. Surely it's just those teens and people in their early twenties that are in chat rooms...?
Even if you're 18 he will be 41...a 41 year old in a chat room to me has alarm bells ringing.
Or maybe you haven't explained it well and it's not that sort of chat room and it is a respectable forum; and that he is the person he says he is.
But in my personal opinion I would get off the PC and go and meet men your age in the flesh by joining clubs or going evening classes; that way you will meet men around your own age who share your interests then you won't face this dilemma.
In any case it's your call, but just be careful whatever you decide to do.
Take care
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