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writes:ok. i REALLLLLY like this guy. he and his g.f broke up and me and him are pretty good friends. i dont really know where to start. he told ppl he likes me. and he told me.heres the problem. hes the touchy kinda guy and im too shy for that. b ut now that im no longer shy around him he kinda stopped doing it. i mean it seems like he doesnt care about me at all. he went to give me a hug by today and i was on crutches and i leaned aaway so i didnt fall. and e laughed at me but if i wasnt on crutches i totalllly would of gerabbed him back. i just want him to idk. put his arm around me like he use to. but now that im not shy.... he has kinda moved on. i think he doesnt like me anymore now that im not shy,... loss of interest maybe? idk. but i realllllly want to hug him. seriously but i mean it was after p.e so he was sweaty and i didnt want that on me! and my reflex reaction is to lean away! please help! and if he would ut his arm around me i would push him away against the wall stuff like that and walk away and smile. but he likes the kind of girl that huggs him abck! idk idk idk HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): Hey! So i am literally going through the exact same thing right now. He liked me first and he would try to hold my hand and stuff like that but i wouldn't. same with hugs he would hug me and i wouldnt hug him back. then last weekend i saw him at a party and went up to give him a hug and he pushed me away. it is so tough and i understand what you are going through! what you have to do is "play the game." boys always want what they cant have and once they get what they want, they will lose interest. when you are around him act like you dont need him in your life and you are fine without him. it will make him very angry that you dont pay attention to him. guaranteed he will show interest again. goood luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'll ask him to the movies... i doubt he will go... but i guess i could try. it will suck to be rejected
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 September 2008):
Well if you are giving off big "DON'T TOUCH ME!!!" signals he's not going to keep trying for ever or he'd be a pervert.
If you are ready for it then just go up and hug him. Ask him out to the cinema.
Let him know that you are ready to be touched by touching his arm or linking up your arm with his.
Give out some positive signals.
Good Luck!! xx
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