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writes:ok there is this dude "j" i liked alot last year in school bur we never hooked up we were alway sfuck buddys even though i wanted it to be more than thatwell this school year he asked me out and we were dattinq everythinq was goin well intill he started makin up rules that really buged me but i ingnored them but then i got scared that the more i gace him sexually the more he would want so sadly i broke up with himnow im dattinq this amazinq dude name "R" !he has everythinq a girl would ever want in a dude but to me he is soo borinq he dosent like to do anythinq and i always wonder should i have stayed with "J" because he loved to do everythinq i did and "r" is like the opposite of meso should i stay with "R" or go bck with "J"!?!?HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP! and thnx alot :)
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reader, littlesuziepie +, writes (13 September 2008):
 I have to say when I read your post the first 3 sentences and I almost gasped out loud. Are you really for real? You have a F buddy at your age? Holy cow girl what the heck are you thinking?! You don't get those type of friends till your an adult and oh god the thought of a child doing that is so sad. I feel for you because I know that if you are doing this type of stuff with boys that don't love you and you don't love then there is a reason a very sad and horrible reason you are this way at a young age. You don't have respect for yourself...your body or your mind. You must find that respect and realize that you are worth so much more than you are giving to your self right now. You shouldn't be having sex now but if you must please make sure your being protected from sTd's. They are nasty and sick and could ruin you for ever. Get something and you could die! Spread it to everyone else. Jesh. Your not old enough to comprehend what deviatstion you can create from this. Not to mention by the time your 20 your going to be so used up no one will want you. Darling please seek help for this issue you have and stop sleeping with boys for a while. You need to find your self in this world before you can share your self. I say don't sleep with either boy keep them both as friends and deciding will be easier in the end. Sorry I wasn't much help but I was as you are now. Pregnant at 14. Thought he loved me but he came over and punched me in the stomach and killed the baby. I feel used now as an adult. Slept with a lot of boys. Its scary. I had std's thank god the ones that can be cured but I still worry now. Years later and I now don't sleep with boys unless I'm in love and in a serious relationship and that's because I know now what damage it causes and I now love who I am and worked on the issues and resons why I did what I did. Mom and dad didn't want me. I was searching for love in all the wrong ways. Now I see I don't need the approval or attention from my parents to be a good person. I only hope you will see one day soon. You can mark this as a bad comment if you want I won't be mad. I understand you wanted an answer but living that life and having a daughter your age just hurt me so much to see what you wrote with no regard for how you would come across. You really don't know how deviatsting it is that you had or have a F buddy. Best best wishes and all of the love and luck I can send. I wish I could show you that you are worth the world and in time your mind will mature and you will regret a lot of stuff you have done so why not take the advise of a very wise and worldly woman and be good. And get an education and love who you are so you don't have a note book list of regrets as an adult. X X x X
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (13 September 2008):
 are you really 13 ? if so its scary that you have a fuck buddy i hope your taking protection if not be prepared to be a parent and live with being an adult as it seem you have decided you are.. your young so things are different... do you love either of them ? or is it just material things that matter to you? to be honest you should take time out and get some respect for yourself and figure out who you are and what you want and not what you can get.. good luck aphex
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