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writes:i am a 23yr old guy.my problem is that my cousin who is 17 loves me very much she wants to have sex with me, i have told her about the consequences of it. But when ever we are alone she trys very hard to have sex, when i refuse she says that she will tell all our family members that i had done wrong to her and i will have to face the concequences.Sometimes it becomes very hard for me also to control myself but any how i had managed till now. But now things are getting out of my way and i think i am also getting attracted towards her. I am also getting feelings for her.The problem is that we have to stay in the same home and she gets a lot of chance when we are alone the whole night.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): You are letting your sexual desires dictate rule out logic.
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reader, littlesuziepie  +, writes (13 September 2008):
 You need to tell someone in your family that you trust and that will believe you over her. You have to let people know what she is doing to you before she lies to people and they believe her over you.
Telling people is your best way to do it because It needs to be told. Be strong you know this is wrong and if she keeps at it you won't be able to hold it back and you will do something you don't want to do.
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x  +, writes (13 September 2008):
 I don't see why you should stop your feelings. Make sure it's legal first though, if it is, then go for it, if it's not then you'll need to banish the feelings and bury them forever, try telling your family that she is coming onto you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): Time to enlist the help of your folks, and hers. You don't have to be upset about it, just state your feelings to them as you have here. Her even mentioning telling others lies about what you two (haven't) been doing is a SERIOUS problem, enough that I'd be asking for their help the next day. I'm sure she's just trying a little preemptive blackmail, but you never know how other people may respond to her telling the tale instead of you, so get talking. This needs to be nipped in bud, NOW.
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