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Does he really want to marry me or is he just joking?

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Question - (13 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *olaBunny writes:

My boyfriend recently asked me to move in with him and said "Who knows, we might get married, I'm very spontaneous"

We have been together about 10 months if not a little more.

The thing is I don't know whether he was being serious or not. Because he didn't laugh a little while he said it or anything and it was sort of in a serious tone.

I'm 18, he is 25. And he has been engaged before but ended up leaving her because she was a liar and a cheater.

So, I just want to know if he seriously is going to end up taking me to Vegas with him and get married.

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A female reader, LolaBunny United States +, writes (13 September 2008):

LolaBunny is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Updates on situation:

I talked to him and asked him if he was being serious and he said yes.

So I am VERY giddy!!!!

I have known him for a couple years now, only dating 10 months.

I posted this question on other websites and people assumed I had only known him for 10 months.

I liked him a lot when I was 16 (When I met him)

but he was like 22, so he said we should stay friends until I'm 18 and if I still like him we can get together.

Thanks a lot everyone :) I'm so excited.

ps. I've also finished school early and am taking classes to advance in graphic and web design.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2008):

Well it depends if you want to be spontaneous and get married in Vagas.

Move in if you want to and then start dropping hints about how you have always wanted a fairy tale wedding with your family around you... or a romantic elopement to Vagas.

Let him know your feelings in a subtle way.

I think he was testing the water to find out if you'd say "yeah well you never know" with a knowing smile, or whether you'd say "ha ha no chance mate, I want a huge dress and ice sculptures and a rock the size of my head."

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, snoop29 United States +, writes (13 September 2008):

snoop29 agony auntIt sounds to me like he wasnt joking and mayb wanted to see what ur response would be. Just make sure you know its right... 10 months isnt very long but then again every relationship has there problems and there will always be the ups and downs no matter what

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