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writes:We Need to grow up! Am I Right?my gf and i seem to have trust issues were exactly the same except i show how i feel and what im thinking and she keeps it all in. She tells me she trust me but then she signs into my cell phone account... (not trusting) reason we both decided to delete myspace... If im not at work Im with her if she isnt at school shes with me. We rly dont go out If i go out with any girl she goes out with a guy she knows i dont like not just a friend. Iv told her were too immature that we need to have our own friends and get over the whole jealousy crap cause nothing will ever move forward but idk if she is understanding... UGH what should i do?
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reader, graciie;  +, writes (14 September 2008):
yeah your right.
trust is what a relationship in any form is based on
and if you dont have that then the relationship is going to be shit.
so ya'know?
either find the trust between you,
or find someone where there will be trust,
xo
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 September 2008):
Yes you need to grow up, but you can't just tell her that and expect her to magically change over night.
Make a list of things you want to not happen, like "don't go through my phone."
She can make a list of things she wants not to happen, like you hanging out alone with certain girls.
Agree and then get on with your life.
Some couples just don't work though as they never get that trust to start with.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): Its either you find someone who will trust you..and you all will not be smothering each other...or you and your current girlfriend take a break and work on your relationship..because you are right you all will not get anywhere with that kind of behavior.
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