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My ex is a completely different person now! What changed him?

Tagged as: Breaking up, Teenage, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (13 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

He did a lot of drugs and didn't care about school, politics, or anything else that was occurring outside of his small bubble of burned out friends. I was the exact opposite: overachiever, love to learn, politics buff, don't do drugs, involved in school, good home life.

After our rough break up and eight months of separation (he was extremely angry with me for a long time), we came into contact and he was telling me about his life right now. He has straight A's, stopped doing drugs, is the class president, attends all his school functions, is mending the broken relationships with his family, and attends political rallies.

What's changed him?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2008):

Sounds like he realised that he was losing all the good things in his life (like you) and it made him get his act together.

He probably saw you (gorgeous and brilliant) waltz out of his life and then saw his friend's new stoner girl friend who hadn't brushed her hair in weeks and was a stupid stoner, and thought "hang on, is this my future?"

It could have been your break up, it could have been a friend dying from an overdose of crack, it could have been his family got through to him.... but hey it worked! and that is all that matters.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, snoop29 United States +, writes (13 September 2008):

snoop29 agony auntMaybe during that time apart he realized how stupid his decisions and choices were and how what he did could of been the cause for the end of ur relationship and Finally decided to get his life together and move forward instead of messing up and going nowhere.

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