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writes:hi i need help... i'm 16 and me and this guy, more than like each other, were in love, we have alreay been together twice but we thought it would be easier now we have left school. were not together yet although we have been seeing allot of each other and the reason is because he is moving.he rang me up last night sayin he is moving in 2 weeks max and we knew it was comming we just didnt think so this quick. Also last night he kind of asked me out but i had to reject him saying things like we need to think of the reality nd all that crap. so all i want to know is does a long distance realashionship work, (he`s moving 3 hours away) is there any such thing as too much space? (although he is commin back every two weeks, but i have college and that) or is it another route 4 heartbreak? someone tell me what to do please xxxx
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (13 September 2008):
 I personall aren't a huge fan of long distance relationships. With one as long as three hours, that's a big commitment to the two of your age. If you think you can handle the rarity of intimacy and then continue like normal, go ahead. But as you're still young, I don't think either of you are ready for such a commitment.
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reader, DreamerMcPixie +, writes (13 September 2008):
First of all communication is key. You need to discuss everything you are feeling if how you are feeling is this deep. You need to be able to tell him that you'll miss him and fear that this may not work. I think the main problem with long distance relationships is that it is hard to keep in touch when you are not face to face. When you want to touch him or hug him you can't. Also if something bad were to happen it's hard to talk on the phone. So first...
a) Decide whether breaking up isn't the right thing to do, whether you are wiling to put your time and effort into making this work.
b) Talk to him about it, don't try to push him away so you don't get hurt.
c) See if there is any way that you can meet up.
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reader, smexxi96  +, writes (13 September 2008):
well if you really like the boy alot i think you could make the long distance thinq work you guys can jsut meet up durinq the weekends and it will be all good because if yuh think about it and let him go will yuh ever find another dude you had the same connection as yuh had with him!!?!? and if yuh dont really like him then kick him to the curb lol!
GOOD LUCK HOPE MY ADVICE HELPED!:)
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reader, Cielo_Alice +, writes (13 September 2008):
 Hello,
Well if he is meant for you then he is for you even though you are far away or maybe there times that the two of you couldn't talk.
But still you are young. There are many things that can happen. A long distance relationship is a tough one. The two of you may develop doubt to another.
You could also cool off first if the two of you like. There's no problem in that since the two are still studying. College is very different from highschool.
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