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writes:If a girl who looked like a porn star propositioned you for sex, would you agree? Like if she looked like Briana Banks, a young Pamela Anderson, Jenna Jameson, or Jesse Jane?I was just wondering because I heard that my boyfriend was at a party a few weeks ago (I was unable to go) and friends have told me that there was this porn star look alike (fake breasts, heavy make up, bright blonde hair, slender, wearing very high heels and a short, tight dress) was hanging all over him. I confronted him about it and he said, yes, there was a girl that was trying to get him to sleep with her but he said no. I asked mutual friends who were at the party and they said that the two of them disappeared for a little while and they weren't sure if they had sex or if anything happened (they were too busy enjoying themselves to really pay attention). But the guys were in agreement that the girl was very sexy and they said that they would have slept with her if they had half a chance. I have no idea who this girl is, no one seems to know her name and she's definitely never been at any other party (I would have noticed I think!).If he didn't sleep with her, why did he hide it from me? When I asked him about the party the next day, he said that it was "ok, but boring without you (me)". He never elaborated so I just assumed that he had a lousy time and there wasn't anything else to say. Now this comes out? I'm wondering if any men would have the power to resist a porn staresque woman trying to get them in bed? How realistic is it that he said no? Should I be worried? He's never cheated or lied to me before that I know of but I've been stressing like mad over this since I found out. I mean these are the women men masturbate over and fantasize about... imagine having one right there in front of you, willing to have real sex with you? COuld you resist?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): I could easily say no to a look-alike porn star like you describe. Actually, I would have a difficult time saying yes. I like real women who don't need to look fake like that. Now an attractive normal looking woman, using little or no makeup and dressing in a tight top and tight jeans who has normal sized natural breasts would be a lot harder for me to say no to. I don't like fake anything at all. I like attractive women (average looks and relatively slim) far more than what you have described. I think that he just soaked up the attention that he was getting at the time and didn't do anything else. The attention would be fun for a while.
He probably didn't say anything because he was afraid that you would worry about it, or he might have ended up being embarrassed at the whole thing. Kind of like running into a pole while walking along and looking at some hot woman and hoping that nobody saw you do it.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (13 September 2008):
 Sure, we men got the power. We just don't use it.
Some other little known secrets about men.
We can pick up our clothes from the floor.
The vacuum-cleaner is NOT completely alien to us.
We can actually clean the dishes before archelogists start digging into them.
And yes, we can say no to sex.
We just don't.
On a more serious note, it has nothing to do with her looks, if your boyfriend wanted to cheat she could dress like a hooker or a nun (mmm nun's) and it wouldn't make a difference.
Also, try and watch some more porn, there is hardly just one look for the actresses or actors in them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): Yeah, I'd definately say no to a pornstar... they're not real. I'd have more trouble with someone I was dating or something of the sort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): I can say no to those girls. I've turned them down a few times.
But admittedly, it is flattering and fun to flirt with them. Just basking in their affection like you're describing your BF did. The idea of getting them is sometimes more fun than the reality of following through with it. And even if you're lukewarm about the girl, there's a boost in social status among your guy friends when they know the girl is hanging off you like that.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (13 September 2008):
 Ah, No.
The most powerful word a dick can say.
you alwyas want what you can't have.
and for the recod screwing a look-a-like porn star is like throwing a sausage down an alleyway.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (13 September 2008):
 Errrr yes I could. I love my gf. Porn stars are usually empty and vapid people in any case.
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reader, Replacement +, writes (13 September 2008):
 Of course I could say no. Easily. Girls like that just aren't attractive, they always look like they're trying too hard. If he's a decent guy he would have said no to. I suggest you trust him on this one.
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reader, Yos +, writes (13 September 2008):
 Of course men 'have the power to resist a porn staresque woman trying to get them in bed'. The problem with women like that is, whilst they might look good from a distance, close up you can see all the 'made in China' labels on their plastic bits. I find it a massive turn-off to be honest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): I don't care what a woman looks like, I am saving myself for marriage. Most of the porn stars I've seen don't look good to me anyway.
I don't know your boyfriend so I can't answer for him but he may have not told you about her because 1) Nothing happened between them or 2) He knew you would get upset if he mentioned a woman coming on to him so he didn't tell you about it.
You say he's never lied or cheated on you. Do you have any reason to distrust him this time?
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