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I've kept it to myself long enough and I'm to that point of reporting him for harassment.

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Question - (9 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I need some advice or suggestions on how to go about this.

My daughter's dad have been emailing me at work regarding our daughter's medical statements in which I've given many copies per court. I've even made a folder for it. Keep in mind, I'm at work on government computer with personal business that could have waited till after work. I've told him to not bother me. As time wonders by, he continues to bother me with medical bills and wanting to see my daughter. Now, he's given up his rights and demands it back. He shouldn't given it up in the first place, idiot. How can he do that? I've tried to be nice as possible but it's starting to upset me. He's also a government employee however, if I decide to go further with what I'm deciding to do, there's a possibility he may lose his job. I've kept it to myself long enough and I'm to that point of reporting him for harassment. I'm tired of it. I've kept every single email just in case this may lead into the court systems which I really don't want to go through again.

I'm really thinking of reporting him to the military police. Should I?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2008):

Why can't you just ignore his emails? Why do you feel you have to take time to read and reply?

Keep them but only reply at the end of the day when you have a moment.

You also have at no point said that you have told him strongly, leave me alone, this is harassment now, stop it or I will report you. You need to do this.

If he still doesn't get the message.... then you can report him.

Good Luck!! xx

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