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writes: hi people at dearcupid, I'm 19 at uni 70 miles away from Manchester (uk) where my actual home is and I've been on a date with a girl who lives in the same area. Last Monday the 3rd November, (I tend to come home every 2/3weeks). I did not know her at all except she went to my school/6form, but the date went well, we talked non stop for 3 or 4 hours at a coffee shop. We are meeting up again on the 17th when I come home again next week and I'm worried about the conversation topics etc because we talked about pretty much everything that you can on a first date. I initiated most of it, and that's why I'm concerned because I don't know what I'll talk about. I've read lots of second date advice which mention buying gifts for a second date, but seeing as I'm still getting to know her, wouldnt that seem a bit desperate to her if I'm buying her chocolate etc? I was thinking of taking her to the cinema then a drink afterwards, is that suitable for a second date? Any females with advice would be really helpfull, thanks a lot Reply to this Question
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reader, Dating Advice Guy  +, writes (20 July 2010):
Second dates are really just phase two of the first date. You still don't know this person all that well, you're still trying to figure out who this person is, and she still has a lot to learn about you.These are the a href="http://www.creative-dating-ideas.com/first-date-ideas.html"best first date ideas/a i've been able to find. they will work just as well for your second date. Just try to relax, and be yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): Il bear all that in mind, Thanks alot for the advice
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reader, vamp-gal  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 If you guys had no problems on your first date, I'm sure everything will be great on the second. My friend and her boyfriend talked non-stop before they even went out, and still have loads to talk about now. If you're still getting to know her, then ask questions to get to know her. In my opinion cinema and a drink afterwards sounds really sweet. Come up with an idea, but you never know, she may have an idea of what to do, or just ask what she would like to do, if she comes up with nothing, have an idea prepared and suggest it.
I'm sure everything will turn out fine.
Hope everything goes great for you.
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