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writes:my storymy ex husband and I got divorced after his mulitples affairs , we have a four year old daughter, he is always making me feel like I cant have a life and uses our daughter against me every chance he gets. I want to move on but every chance I get to go out on a date he tells me im negleting my daughter and makes me feel horriable so i end up not going out. we have been divorced for 1 year and seprated for almost 2 years, he has a girlfriend and a new baby so why is it he wont let me move on and what can I do too stop him from interfering in my life? On our court papers it tates he cant use amber against me to interfear in my personal life, but he still does. what can I do to stop him?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 November 2008):
The only reason he is stopping you from going out on dates is because you keep letting him.
You know what he is doing so why do you keep getting upset by him? When he starts on his "you're a bad mother" bit then just laugh and hang up and go out!
You know he is only saying these things to hurt you so why give him that power???
Good Luck!! xx
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