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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm having a few problems with my father-in-law. He and my mother-in-law are very rich and they offered to fly my new husband and I to vanuatu on a tropical holiday shortly after we got married earlier this year. We didn't really have much of a honey moon planned and we thought it would be a great opportunity for a nice relaxing time together but his parents wanted to come as well. They were paying and so my husband and I decided to go with them, because we thought we could get away and use the occasion as a honey moon. When we got to our serene little beach huts we were disappointed that there were only a few huts in the whole resort and my husbands and mine was right out of the way of everything, except for his parent's hut. we had a whole beautiful lagoon pool to ourselves and only the two huts were there. After a few days all together my husband got so frustrated he began going diving off the reefs all day and coming home late at night. I wanted to be with him but i got so bored after one day of it i stopped going and just lazed around the pool while he went off all day. Anyway, my father-in-law began swimming all the time with me while his wife kept cool in the hut and wrote, and my husband was off at some reef. We played some games in the pool together and he began slowly touching me incidentally whist we played. Soon after we were playfighting over the pool ball we had and he would tickle me. Then One day he tried to pull my bathers off and i swam away. But i was so turned on at that point from having no sex for two weeks that i decided to give him a show. I took off my whole bikini and got out of the pool. He followed and when we were in the showers together he masturbated while i kissed his chest. Nothing else happened but since then he has been sending me messages and coming over to see me so much "just to talk" as he says, cause he knows i won't do anything.. I am worried my husband will find out i'm spending so much time with him and i'm worried i can't hold him off for much longer, because i even once let him fondle my breasts in the bedroom at one of our family parties, because he was so persistent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): You don't say whether or not you're enjoying all the attention you're getting from your father-in-law, or whether you want to stop this before it gets out of control, but one thing's for sure - it'll open up a real can of worms if your husband or mother-in-law find out what the two of you have been up to.
Stripping off naked in front of him wasn't the best of ideas, let alone showering with him and kissing his chest. He might be a lot older than you but he's still got blood running through his veins and I'm surprised he had the self control not to take things further in the shower. The big question is would you have gone further if he wasn't satisfied with just bashing the bishop? Then you later let him fondle your breasts. Whether he was persistent or not is no excuse for letting him do that. You know all this is wrong, yet to all intents and purposes you still keep teasing him. What are you likely to do next to get his sap rising?
Basically I think you're loving the attention you're getting and you're certainly leading him up the garden path, hopefully towards a locked gate. I'm sure you don't need anyone to tell you that you need to stop this before it gets totally out of hand. Just think of the consequences if you got caught. Two divorces and a family in pieces.
I think you should let your husband know that you need more attention from him. Keep your distance from his father, avoid being alone with him and if he misbehaves tell him to stop - and make sure he knows you mean it. The other thing of course, is to make sure you behave too. You're each as much at fault as the other.
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