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writes:I'm a 23 year old female, and I've never been in a relationship. I'm attractive: when I go out to classes, or restaurants, or the grocery store, or bars, guys frequently approach me. I'm intelligent: I am in law school on a full scholarship. I think I am a nice and thoughtful person: I try to be there for my friends when they need help or just need someone to listen, and I am in law school so that I can work in a non-profit with impoverished children and families.I do go on dates with some of these guys who approach me. Granted I don't say yes to everyone, but I don't say no to everyone either. Whenever I end up being interested in a guy he seems to be interested for a few months and then just disappears for one reason or another.It's depressing to watch many of my friends get into great relationships or get married, while I just can't seem to make it work and I have no idea why. I know this is all sort of abstract and vague, but does anyone have any ideas or suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): It's probably nothing personal - they say you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a prince.
It might be useful though to find out the reasons and if its always the same thing then you could do something about it.
Some men feel a bit inferior when they meet a woman who has a lot going for them. It probably doesn't occur to them that you yourself could feel rejected.
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reader, vamp-gal  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 Well if you ask me, those guys don't know what they missed, you seem like a nice, intelligent, thoughtful person, it doesn't make sense to me either.
Don't worry, keep being who you are, there will be someone for you soon, you say guys approach you all the time, so along the line, there will be a guy who thinks of himself the luckiest guy in the world. All you have to do is wait.
It must be hard watching all your friends in great relationships, but their is someone out there for everyone, so while they're getting married and everything, just wait, their will be an amazing guy, who loves you for you, and will never loose interest in you.
Hope this helps.
Hope everything goes great for you.
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