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Anal sex question!

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Question - (9 November 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, I had anal sex for the first time with my boyfriend, we didn't use a condom and I heard you're more likely to catch infections this way, is that true? Also I noticed I was bleeding a little bit after, is this normal? Thanx x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008):

I absolutely hate that anal sex has become so prevalent and expected in a relationship. Why? Because it is dangerous for the female in the situation.

It has been documented now that gay men have problems with the function here from being involved with this type of sex and some have to wear tampons in their assholes after some years of this type of sex.

God gave you a pussy for sex, porn gave men an asshole for sex. Don't feel forced into doing this unless somehow you enjoy destroying a perfectly good part of your anatomy. Just a few years back, anal sex NEVER was mentioned in relationships!

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A male reader, Cowboy United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2008):

Cowboy agony aunt

A bit of bleeding s normal, as the lining is very delicate and can be damaged easily. This high chance of open wounds is the reason why it is easier to get diseases from anal sex.

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A female reader, Miss Potter United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2008):

Miss Potter agony auntHi, ive bled the first few times, you just have to get it ready first, let him finger you first. Anyways, after few more times it should be ok. As to infections, well if you are both clean and arent havent sex with any other people you shouldnt get an infection out of nowhere. Yes, no ass to pussy action, you will end up having an infection - not an STI of course but this will destroy the microflora balance in your vagina.

Good luck

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (9 November 2008):

Danielepew agony auntThat blood means you got serious injuries in your anus. That is not normal. Since now you have an open wound, you're likely to catch infections. Anal sex also makes it more likely to get AIDS.

Are you not the person who posted a question about whether she should or should not have anal sex this way?

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A male reader, steven 25206542 United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2008):

steven 25206542 agony auntYes, anal ex is quite dirty because of this, you are more likely to catch sti's because of the bleeding and contact but if you guys are both clean then there should be no problem my only advice is DO NOT LET HIM PUT IT IN YOUR ASS THEN PUT IT IN UR PUSSY ass this WILL give you a very bad water infection our worse? Take care pet

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