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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I need serious help!! About 2 years ago I really liked this guy called chris and I ended up telling him I had feelings for him which was a big mistake as he said he didn't feel the same way.. We never knew each other properly and I guess that was one of the reasons why nothing happend in between us and he had a girlfriend at the time which I discovered later on. I was heart broken and couldn't get over what happend for nearly a whole year. Now the problem is I've become really close friends with his really close mate George, they've known each other since primary and even though George didn't make a clear statement I'm sure he has feelings for me and I guess he doesn't know about me and Chris which doesn't make sense or he just acts like he doesn't know...It's been nearly 3 years and I'm over Chris I guess or at least I want to think I am, Ii still can't help but to look when I see him and I get really angry and jealous when someone talks about him and his girlfriend next to me, it's just a reaction and I cant help it! I've been told I act like I'm his girlfriend when I'm with George as we cuddle and go to the movies together and I know it's not fair to lead him on when I'm still not clear whether I have feelings for him or not especially when the stuation involves his friend from childhood but it feels right when I'm with him, he's a lovely guy who seriously deserves the best. I know there is no future for me and Chris together but I still can't help my emotions. Someome please help me, what am I supposed 2 do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): Wow, 3 years at your age. That sounds like unhealthy fixation. I would advice to get some help before it turned into maniac obsession. Good luck.
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reader, Oceania  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 you are in a very tough situation, but you're right, george is a good guy and deserves the best. You can't give him that, if your still in love with chris.You need to stop seeing chris, his friends, everything that reminds you of him because you need to seriously move on. You got to stop leading george on because he doesn't deserve to be treated badly, you dont want to hurt him honey so you need to stop that and throw away everything about chris. He is stopping you from being happy. So forget about george, forget abour chris and start all over. good luck girl.
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