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My boyfriend has 2 kids but doesn't want one with me.

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Question - (9 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I read the post about hating my boyfriend's kids. I am beginning to feel the same way as all these other posters. My bf of 7 years has 2 kids and one lives with us full time the other comes every other weekend. I have been through lots of drama with the ex for years! I love him and want my own family. He changes the subject everytime it gets brouht up. I am not getting any younger and I don't like being around his kids because all they care about is him even though I have played with them took them to school and picked them up fed them clothed them everything! And they ignore me . It is getting so old. I am torn because I feel I am wasting valuable time of baby making years and he doesn't want a family right now with me. I feel terrible a lot more lately . Any advice or someone else that has been in the same situation? Thx

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A female reader, boo22 United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2008):

boo22 agony aunthi, i've not been in this situation myself but my friend is now. her man has 2 kids from a previous relationship and will not entertain the prospect and they have been together for years and she's in her early 40's. she has stayed with him knowing this means no kids of her own. can you do that too? if the answer is no then move on. time for some soul searching girl. good luck x

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