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female
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41-50,
*N2Be
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and recently, he's been acting a little off. First off, his last relationship, which lasted 5 years, ended because his ex cheated on him with his best friend. So when I first hooked up with him, he vowed he'd never hurt anyone the way he was hurt by his ex. He hates those that cheat and he promised that he would never cheat on me. Last week, he got an i-phone and I noticed that he's always hiding his phone. On top of that, he wasn't "up" for sex one time and when he was, he couldn't "finish." Maybe he's not cheating, but is he losing his love for me?
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reader, RN2Be +, writes (10 November 2008):
RN2Be is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's definitely not harboring a porn addiction. I know where he keeps all of his porn. In fact, I encourage it while we're apart AND together. I think I'm going to go with the idea of him being stressed at work. He probably just isn't ready to tell me what's on his mind. He did express a lot of love this morning with morning kisses and telling me he loves me.
Thank you all for your advice, ideas and comments. I appreciate every bit of it!
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Well its unlikely that he has deleted everything... Was the inbox completely empty? If yes then probably he has deleted the history if not then there probably wasnt anything going on.
Maybe he is just stressed? Is everything ok in work? Maybe hes just bored.
Try to be supportive and maybe he will soon end up telling u whats up?
It could be pornography i agree with previous poster but that depends on whats ur attitude towards it? For example im cool with porno so my boyfriend doesnt hide it from me, i dont know whats teh case with you two...
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reader, RN2Be +, writes (10 November 2008):
RN2Be is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI got a hold of his iphone and I couldn't find anything incriminating in his inbox. I even searched his facebook and his text messages. Perhaps they're all deleted?
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (10 November 2008):
 The someone else that he is into could possibly be a budding pornography addiction. He is certainly trying to hide something. That alone is unhealthy for your relationship. If you find that this is the case he will need professional help to break the addiction. There are other things that could affect his sexual performance. If you don't find the cause consulting a dr may be in order. FA
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): I agree with miss potter. get ahold of his phone when he is in the shower and you may find your answer there.
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reader, Miss Potter +, writes (10 November 2008):
Id try to get hold of his ipod when hes not around that should answer your question quicker than he will get the courage to tell you that hes into someone else if thats the case.
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