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writes: Me and my girlfriend got drunk tonight we ended up making out. One thing lead another and I pull off her shirt but it stuck to her bra strap. me being quite drunk pulling harder thinking it would come with it. But some padding fell out. I said " whoa padding up ur bra how sad is that". This time she brust into tears and ran of out the room. Is there a chance we're breaking up for good?
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reader, BlondeBabe x  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 For a girl that is probably one of the worst things you could have said.
She might dump you however as you were both drunk you may be ok.
But you need to apoligize alot, she will feel really embarrassed so maybe buy her a gift or something to show that you are truly sorry.
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reader, alakazam  +, writes (9 November 2008):
Many bras today come with padding for various reasons. Women of all sizes wear padding and so there is nothing really wrong with it. I'm sure playboy models would have it also. I myself have a confidence problem in that area, and If a guy handled it that way, I'm not sure I could face him again. If she is wearing padding she could have the same confidence problems I do. And If I were your girlfriend, I would never be able to get past that. It doesn't matter If you we're drunk. I am a firm believer that drunkenness is no excuse for your actions. I believe it reveals the true inner self and inner feelings as you feel less inhibited. This will be a tough hurdle to jump, as she may never get over how you feel. Try to make her feel sexy about her chest, and apologize of course. If that doesn't work, nothing may.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): Whether she gets back with you or not apologize to her.That's a horrible thing to tell a girl.
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (9 November 2008):
 She will be embarrassed so will probably avoid you for a while. The best you can do is not to refer to this incident at all. I can really relate to this because when I was 17 the same thing happened to me and all these tissues fell out and 'Richard' just laughed and laughed. He told the whole school! I suggest you keep this to yourself. Personally i would ring her and say you are sorry for upsetting her and that you really care about her and still want to go out with her if she'll have you and just see what she says. I think she'll still want to out with you.
At the time she was emotional, drunk and then enormously embarrassed. This will fade after a few days and eventually she will be able to just laugh it off. Just be nice and don't talk about the issue.
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reader, dollparts  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 I actually couldn't agree more with Emilysanswers that was a cruel cruel cruel thing to say to her, and if you were my boyfriend and you said something like that we'd be through I'd dump your ass thats for sure.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 November 2008):
Yep, that was a horrible hurtful thing to say, especially when you were doing something so intimate.
I'd dump you.
Good Luck!! xx
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