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Best friend room mate or undercover lovers?

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Question - (9 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2008)
A male United States age 51-59, *roovylou writes:

okay my question is - I am dating a woman that lives with her best friend but the kicker is this my girl waits on this waman, go everywhere together and the room mate comes home from work and ask my girl to go get her some beer. I am a little worried and don't know if I should be does it seem like there is more then a friendship or am I just wrong we can't go anywhere without the room mate going and this jan I was taking my girl home to meet mom until she informed me that her friend was coming with us now I don't want to go am I wrong

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A male reader, groovylou United States +, writes (9 November 2008):

groovylou is verified as being by the original poster of the question

it's not just that why does my girl feel the need to wait on her take her food in the bed or even dress In Her room when while she is there and I am in her bedroom

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2008):

She's just really close to her friend.

Try just asking her to spend some time just the 2 of you.

And tell her that you want to meet her parents for the first time alone and not just as an extra friend.

Make it clear that you are not asking her to spend any less time with her friend, and that you are happy to let her go off with her friend any time she wants as you probably have friends that you want to go and spend time with too.

But just ask for some alone time.

Good Luck!! xx

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