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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am in love with someone and married to someone else whom I care about deeply. I'm not in love with my husband but we have spent months working on our relationship and are trying to rebuild what we had - he says that he is desperate to make things work. The man I am in love with wants us to be together.I guess the question really is: can you fall back in love with someone? If not is affection and friendship enough for a relationship to survive? I don't want to keep hurting my husband and perhaps should just move on to spare the continuous hurt of repeatedly trying and failing.Please help - I'm desperately confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): I think you said it all. looks like you want to be with your new passion. But we all know that passion doesn't last. may be you give it a little more time to see how you feel. I think while love is gone there is no coming back. Good luck
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reader, Lovestrikes19 +, writes (9 November 2008):
The only advice that I can give you see listen to you heart. If you really love this other guy- then be with him- don't make yourself miserable every single day knowing what life would be like without the one you love. But first thing first if you really want to go for it-talk with you husband and let him know exactly how you feel- He might be able to help you out then anyone else. *Good Luck*
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