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30-35,
*ammyJo92
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months nearly and I love him with all my heart but I still love the attention I get off other males, like when I go downtown other people flirt with me and I get a kick I haven't cheated on him before and I never will. I just feel so bad because he asks me how was my night and I kinda lie saying it was good and all girls. It's the same when ex's tell me they miss me, I'm like "oh do you" and I lead them on, I don't know if it is because I got my confindence knocked down when I was with a violent ex partner which he knows about. He means the world to me but I feel bad.:(Is it wrong to do this behind his back!? Also I have another problem, I unfortunately didn't lose my virginty to my partner which I wish I did, he lost his to me, I lost mine with my ex and it was a mistake, wasn't planned and he forced me in to it because I cannot say no, it gets me down and puts a strain on our relationship cause I feel like I let him down, does it really matter!? We have had nice nights in which resorted to us both losing it but I still feel bad, I just need some help'Thankyou.
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reader, SammyJo92 +, writes (9 November 2008):
SammyJo92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe second one isnt a confession^o) Why would it be, i asked for help cause i dont know what to do about it; dose it matter dose he care? or whatTHANKYOU everyone esle:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): I agree with anonymous but you should be upfront with your partner and tell him how you feel and i don't think you should be going behind his back, just be upfront with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): I'm the kinda girl who loves attention from males flirting and also from my x`s with no intention of ever cheating,but it was to much for my guy to handle and he ended it with me because he had convinced himself i had cheated which i never did yet he knew i was a flirt when we met,i have toned it down a bit but i cant be someone im not an i have no intentions of pretending to be as you can see right through the fakeness,so just be yourself and be happy nothing to feel guilty for
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 I think that ex really traumatized you. If I was your bf, I would have broken every one of his teeth but anyway, I agree, tell your bf how you feel, and go with the flow, smoothly. Sure your boyfriend wouldn't mind...
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reader, shadopaw  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 check this out i look good and so girls flirt with me and i do right back my girl look real good guys flirt with her and she do right back it's cheating if you let them touch you all on the as or other places and dont care your my age and flirting is what we do dont trip and da other question you never told us whats wrong you was like havin a confession or some sh*t
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): I think the fact that you are so worried about this and feel bad proves that you really care about this guy. Sometimes people can't help but to feel good about getting attention. If it makes you feel so guilty that you can't concentrate on your relationship or be happy, then maybe you should just tell him how you're feeling. Maybe that's the only way to make your heart lighter. I hope this helped you some. (I know how that feels too, because when other guys try to flirt with me I can't help but to feel flattered.)
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