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writes:ive been with my girlfriend over a couple of months now, and we are both ready to do oral sex. i've never done anything but kiss before. and im really nervous about showing my dick. im scared i might be too hairy, too small, and the main reason im scared is because i don't have fore-skin. please i need advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): First of all there is no normal when it comes to dicks everyone is different. the best advice on giving oral to a girl is take ur time ask her how she likes it and it will all come naturally. The majority of girls are very self concious about their bods so just tell her what you like about her. both take time exploring eachothers bodys and all dicks come in different shapes and sizes if she likes you she will like your dick because it belongs to you. make her feel at ease about her body and she will do the same for yo.
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reader, Janicp14  +, writes (11 November 2008):
Most guys are self-conscious about HAVING foreskin! I've been with guys who have had them and who haven't, and I prefer guys who don't have them, BUT it really doesn't make much of a difference to me. You're just scared because it'll be your first time, that's how everyone was! I've noticed also that people who get into sexual practices later on in their teens tend to be more frightened as well, because they've waited so long and the pressure and negative ideas build up. But you're more than likely normal. I thought every last thing was wrong or "weird" about my body when I was 15, and even when I started having sex I thought that if I was with anyone other than my boyfriend at the time who really loved me, they would think I was gross. Well, when we broke up and I found other lovers, I discovered that many men found me attractive and have never once received a complaint about my body. I still struggle with body image issues, but I trust my boyfriend and I trust that he means it when he says he finds me sexy and enjoys our sex life.
Just try to relax. If you trust your girlfriend, there should be no problem, and you shouldn't really be doing it if you don't trust her anyways! I know that seems easier said than done, but trusting her doesn't mean that you won't have any insecurities or worries - it just means that you trust she is a good person and will treat you kindly no matter what, because she cares about you on the inside.
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reader, n00dl35  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 yo, if you're not ready then don't do it yet. you're self conscious and if you and your girlfriend grow closer over time then you will lose that and you will be comfortable with each other. just tell her you don't think you're ready yet.. that it's too early. i'm sure she'll understand. good luck
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reader, SammyJo92  +, writes (9 November 2008):
I dont seriosuly know what your worrying about;
My ex dint have fore-skin and to be honest it dint bother me, it still the same. i wouldnt be botherd if i was you she would still like you no matter what! All penis sizes are diffrent but there all normal. its not the size/shape/hairyness its the way you use it.
Just take things slow and be relexed.
Good luck :)
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