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writes:I asked for help a couple weeks ago week about having an issue with an unemployed boyfriend. We have been together 7 years. I have been supporting him in every way since. Now he is unemployed again because of the economy. I actually met him when he was unemployed. We are still having sexual problems. It went down hill after his losing his job. I understand that. Not a problem. He was masturbating to porn alot too. He had admitted to that because of him being home again so much. He said he would stop to help our situation in the bedroom. I have been supportive as usual given ample space, alot of affection and support. This morning he just was not himself again at all in the bedroom. I asked him if this was all about the job loss which I insured him I understand and it's not problem. But he went on to say it's because he wants change(sex with another woman too)He still wants me in the picture but needs to have something different. He said I'm the problem too? I have done everything ever possible with him in the sex department to please him. I am always willing to please.I am still attractive and very fit. Even though I don't think so now. I am trying to make sense of this still. Would appreciate any comments and advice...:[ Thanks in advanced
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 November 2008):
Wow, so he's unemployed and living off you and now he's saying you aren't good enough for him in bed.
You've picked a real charmer here.
I really don't know why you are putting up with him - why should he get a sexual treat when you are doing ALL the work in the relationship and supporting him in every way?
If it were me I'd tell him to go and find another woman and have the locks changed while he's gone.
Good Luck!! xx
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