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writes:Hi everyone.I just want to start off by thanking everyone for their time on reading my questions. I've been thinking a lot about what's been going on between my boyfriend and I. My boyfriend and and I have been dating for about 7 months now, and already i know every single detail about him. I know where he was born, his faborite colors, etc. I know everything that he's been through and and most of his thoughts.. well i know everything he's told me so far. As he was informing me about him and and his past, a couple of questions and and concerns came to my head. I never really told him my concerns because i was simply afraid =]. Here are some of my questions and concerns:1.) One day we just got finished having one of the best times in our sex life. As we were laying next to one another, he started telling me about how he used to think about.... guys. YES I KNOW! At first i laughed and and thought he was just playing around. but he said he was serious and and he almost went down with a guy. After that i looked at him thinking weather or not he was actually bisexual because of the fact we're dating and he was thinking about other guys before. Once that was said, i was afraid to take him to the mall, or even out anywhere, because of the fact that i was scarred that he would be checking out the same guy i was low-key checking out,. lol =]. But yes, here's my question..- Does that mean he's Bisexual, even though he denies it??2.) Another BIIIIIIG question that i have is.. WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT HIS BIRTHDAY THAT'S COMING UP NEXT MONTH? I'm kind of broke from being a College student and and i'm not so good on being creative in a sexual relationship =[.Thank you to EVERYONE who reads this and and helps me out because im oh-so very lost =] Thanks =]
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reader, that_one_female +, writes (26 November 2008):
that_one_female is verified as being by the original poster of the question I know there is no difference between him cheating with a woman or a man. It's just that he has some past experiences that's changed his mindset. He was raped for 7 years and beat for 4 years. Both his parents dispise him the only love he's found was either through gang banging or close friends, and some of his close friends were gay or bisexual. He told me that he had a boyfriend before, that that only happened because he was confused about the whole rape situation. He had so much going on with close friends' funerals and abandonment from his family that his close friends who were bisexual and gay were the only ones showing him love at the time. During our relationship he hasn't done anything for me to think that he's gay, but he did tell me that he 'guesses' he's bisexual because of what he did. I told him that what happened in the past is what happened in the past, what happened before he met me. && i don't hold anything against him for this. Now he's had some contact with this close friend of his who "turned him out" and they hang out, which i don't care, somewhat. But what's RRREEEEAALLLYYYY irritating me now, at this very moment, 12:47am wednesday, November 25th 2008, his gay close friend is sleeping at his house. I have no way of getting there at this moment i have no ride and my car's in the shop. I'm worried that they're gonna get too drunk to where they're at the point of having a "part-2". I don't know.. .... .. . . . . ..... ... . . .. . . .
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): If you're not concerned about him cheating with another woman then why would you worry about him cheating with a man? Seriously what is the difference. If he is a faithful man you've got nothing to worry about, and if he isn't then he's no good - wouldn't really matter whether it was a man or woman.
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reader, that_one_female +, writes (10 November 2008):
that_one_female is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank your for your time =]
i understand he had chosen me, Im just worried if it'll bite me in the ass sooner or later. I think the only thing that's bothering me is that im afraid someday i'm going to find him with another man, cheating. But everything else is that i LOVE HIM and i'm trying to cope with what I'm thinking. I do trust him and all but it's that one thought that sticks in my head. But, I'm trying my best =]
Again. Thank you all for you're time. You've been very helpful. =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): It could be that he is trying to tell you he is Bi. He may love you, true, but can you handle it f he is bi or has been with men. Bi/gay/Str8 the fact is he was or is atracted to men. Does he check out men while you all are walking...doubt it. He is with you. I am bi, or maybe even Gay and I am married and when I am with my wife, (or with out) I don't check out other guys. I look at women.
Question 2: lets say he is only curious. get a strap on. why not bring a little fun sex in your relatioship. Maybe he us wants to play the part. I like that too!
hope this helps
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 1- it can mean is bisexual. or it can say, he had a phase when he wasn't sure what he wanted. and about if he's bisexual? his with you now, isn't he? so it means he chose to be with you.
2-big question. make a list of everything you know he loves. then find the one you think he would love the most. try and chose the cheapest, if it happenns to cost monney. or try to make him a sexy surprise. that's something you should find out.
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