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writes:I'm planning on moving out for the first time next summer with my Best Friend. Him and I have been Best Friends for four years now. We are so close and practically inseperable. We used to fool around, but now our relationship is completly non-physical. He was the first boy I ever did anything with, and I think that made me get reallyyyy attached to him. He has already told me he does not have feelings towards me romantically, and I told him I feel the same. But the truth is that I love him! It's absolutly killing me. I hate keeping this from him, but I've been keeping it from him for soo long that even the thought of telling him scares me to death as I already know how he feels towards me but I know it would be sad to live with him for two years while we go to college together and have these hidden feelings towards him.If I ever tell him I would want the timing to be right.. maybe when we are older, after college, then he would be ready to settle down and fall in love. I'm just falling apart inside and would like some kind advice. Thank you
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reader, Hobbit22 +, writes (10 November 2008):
 You need to tell him how you feel before you room together. You think your in torture now. Wait until he starts bringing girls back to your place, cuz, he thinks your just buddies. your heart is going to rip out and you won't be able to study and concentrate like you should. You need to tell him. Dosen't matter how long you've been crunching on him for. You need to tell him you have feelings for him now, and have a mature discussion with him about it all.
You claim he is your close tight friend, well be a friend then and be honest with this buddy of yours, you ought to be able to tell him anything cuz your so close right...well then, tell him otherwise you decieve him, and what kind of friend does that make you ??!
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