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writes:I'm just super sad. This guy my brother set me up with and I dated for a little while. He told me sometime he gets into depressed moods... But i never imagined he would be so depressed that he didn't want to talk to anyone. Well, he called about 3 weeks ago and told me he needed someone to talk to we have been hanging out ever since. Everything was going freaking fantastic. I messaged him that my cosmo said if I gave him a blow job on the 6th it would be amazing.. and I did it and .. it was. But I wanted something too.. our sex is freaking amazing!! So of course I wanted something. He was falling asleep though so he said tommorrow. I went over the next day and we hung out at his friend's for a while and went back to his house and I made pizza. After he eats he falls asleep.. it's kind of funny.. but also kind of annoying. I usually don't mind cause I just rub his back or his head blah blah blah.. but I was soooo DEPRIVED!! He asked me if I wanted to go to bed at around 11.. i was like.. ooook... so we did. and then the next morning I got up and got ready and had to go check on my Grandma. \He was going to go with me (which I would have liked him to meet her) but he said he had errands to do. so I said alright .. later then. It made me mad that his errands consisted of saying hi to his mom who lives around the corner and looking at furniture that he's not going to buy. I mean come on.... if you had to go to the post office or to the store sure.. but seriously.. he could have went to meet my Grandma. Then after I was done checking on her I went back to his house and we were gonna get breakfast. He invited his friends to go.. which pissed me off. I didn't say anything about it though. So we went to eat then we went to another furniture store. In the store he was alllllll over me.. which I enjoyed but.. you'll see why I was mad about that in a minute. After that we went back home and I fixed his music on his computer, then we went to his Mom's house and said hi. Then we went to a restaurant to eat dinner. that was actually fun. On the way home he sang a bunch of songs to me and I thought things were going well. He wanted me to make this dessert thing when we got back to his house. So I did and we were watching one of my movies. He fell asleep and I was kind of angry. We were just on the couch he had his arms around me and stuff but that wasn't cutting it for me.. I was still mad. So I told him I was going to start my car. I went and started it and when I got back inside he was awake and watching the movie. So I said "NOOOOOOw you're up". and he asked if I was mad and I said no. But I couldn't just leave without saying anything. So I asked him if he was upset or something. (usualy he's waaaaaaaaaaay more touchy feely). He said he wasn't. I told him he was actuing weird today and that usually he's way more affectionate. He seemed annoyed that I said anything.. so now I really regret bringing anything up. He told me he was annoyed that I said it and wouldn't even give me a hug goodbye. He told me we'd talk about it tomorrow. I got in my car and instantly cried. I really like this guy. The more I hang out with him the more I like him. It's not just the sex I like. I really like all of him... and I feel like I'm falling in love with him. He makes me laugh. I wish he would hang out with my friends too though. Maybe do some things I want to do... But I'm always too chicken to ask. I think about him all the time. Even when I was dating other people I still thought about him. His sister told me that he would never admit it but he has been hurt before.. and that his family has been broken more than once. I don't know if that plays a role in anything or not. It's eating me away right now. ... I don't know what to do.. any advice?? Any insight??? What do you think??I don't want to just forget him.. there are too many things I love about him.
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 that's one confusing story. but with all of that story, i didn't quite catch what was the question...
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