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writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 19 months now, we get alone very well and have a lot in common. I used to trust him until I found out he told a girl he used to "talk" to that she will always belong to him, when I talked to him about it, he claimed he didn't mean nothing by that, but hey I'm not stupid. A few months after that, he was texing his so call "long time friend" while at work and I guess she asked him what he was doing and he told her that he was at work making money for "their" future kids, now what does that sound like? When I asked him about it he said he just wanted to see if he could of had her??? Since then I don't trust him how I used to. He told me he's a changed man now but for some reason I can't forget about the past... what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): Some guys do that so they could make sure that girl will still be waiting for them once they break up with their current girlfriends...basically he's using her as a fallback just incase things go wrong with you..
But I would still be careful..because they may be trying to get back together..and next thing you know...he tells you that things just aren't working out for you..and he just wants to be friends with you so that he can be with her..leaving you hanging..that's what happened to me.
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 Dump him. He doesnt sound as though he has any interest in you, but does with this girl. Give him a head start and get rid of him. You deffinetly dont want to be with a guy like that, and youll be better off. It will hurt, but then agin, he obviosuly wasnt good enough for you, and you can have someone who is mor compatable, youll have more fun times, more love and etc with someone else.If you live together, chuck his clothes and belongings out the door when hes at work then change the door locks so he hasnt got any option but to find somewhere else to live. Or have another talk with him. Tell him if he doesnt stop talking to this girl, then you will break up with him. If he argues with you, dont bother argueing back. Just walk away and hold your head up high.Goodluck x x
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