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writes: I'd love to dress up in something sexy for Vincent.....but I'm not quite sure in what. We been together for 7 months now, and I'm really wanting to give him something special..... Something sexy for the bedroom.... You know what mean?Anyone have any ideas?Thanx, J2L Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI tried out the stokings with the garter belt....omg!He loved it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDiovan! i love all the help you've given! Thank you soo much! I'll try out what you've given me, and i'll let you know how its going ;D. Thanks so much
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): And stockings, thigh high hold up's that have lace at the top is always a turn on and drive men wild. If you can't get these, normal stockings with a garter belt will do just as well. For some reason men hate tights, but if these are all you can get then don't worry. Let him rip them from your body and it will make him feel strong and he will be happy with them... I like the shirt suggestion thing. Wear his clothes and he will feel possessive, you can keep your money and he'll feel sexy as hell....
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): Oh sorry, you was asking about sexy clothes. I misread and gave you different advice. Looking on the Internet for sexy nurse or sexy maid should give you tons of places where you can get outfits. Don't forget the high heeled shoes, men always love that. When you get in costume, please remember to act and play the part. Sexy nurses give comfort and sexy maids do whatever they are told... lol... I think I'm getting jealous now. Oh to be young and in love again... Remember, make it fun and if it worries you, laugh and try something else instead....
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): Hi Made2Love, hope you and Vincent had a lovely holiday. I'm glad to see you back, and I'm glad that you are still looking for advice to make your relationship great. We've come a long way from the first contact, when I and others were telling you to dump him cause we think he's a pervert. Seven months, have you been together that long already, boy how time flies....
OK, so you want to keep the magic and want to bring something sexy into the bedroom. Well that is nice of you, and I hope Vincent realises what a special woman you are.
You could try the "different position every week" trick. Choose a position every week and try it out. Some you won't like, some you will, some will be too hard and some will be your favourites, but all should be lots of fun, especially when you both get it wrong and have to laugh.
Try http://www.sexinfo101.com/ for more ideas of sex positions to try. Remember if it hurts, humiliates or embarrasses, then that's ok, you just don't like it, so try something else instead.
I also recommend bring sex and sex play out of the bedroom and into everyday life. Make him a sandwich for work, and put in a sexy note that will turn him on. Put in your knickers sprayed with your usual perfume. This should embarrass him at work, turn him on, make him think of you all day and drive him crazy.... Lots of fun, uncomfortable, but anything adventurous and new is always uncomfortable. If he doesn't like it, then hopefully he will tell you and then you won't do it again.
Shopping for food and groceries. Why save all the fun for the bedroom. He takes a basket, you take a basket and both of you pick up the things for the home that you need. The sexy fun part is that you wear no knickers and you tell him that. You go in different directions and pretend to be strangers, but every time you meet you give him, or he gives you a little caress, a grope, that nobody else can see. Hopefully this will make grocery shopping a lot of fun, as you both play "hide and seek, come find me and kiss me" behind the cabbages and the soap powder.... Don't worry, if things get to hot, or you or him get embarrassed, you don't have to shop there again, you can find another shop.
Finally for sexy fun at home in the bedroom, I have two techniques that should turn both of you on. In the first, you are paid to message him from head to foot. Heat some Almond oil, or any other oil that doesn't have a strong smell. You are naked, he is naked, but you are too concentrate on giving him the best massage of your life. You massage his head, his back, his toes and his legs. When you turn him over, his dick should be hard. Massage the rest of his body, his chest, his calves, his arms, by this time his penis should be crying out for you. A long kiss on his penis to finish the job and he should be yours for life.
The second technique is the "food for lovers" game. This needs ice-cream or cream, some fruit cut up, and a bottle of fizzy drink like champagne of something cheaper. Everything will get very messy, so you both may have to do laundry the next day. Basically, you and him both aim to stick the fruit in as many sexy places as possible. Eating strawberries out of his ears is very funny and sexy as well. The cream (ice-cream) goes all over the body, and you use your tongue and finger to lick every drop up. I hope you get the idea. You and him are having dessert, but you both forget about the plates and use your bodies instead. It's a good idea to have a shower before you practice this one. Everything should be clean, so you don't mind where you lick or suck.
Have fun babes, I'm so glad that your together, not pregnant yet, and your relationship is working out. Don't forget to update us on DC, I am only one aunt that is happy to watch your progress in your relationship with Vincent. Good luck babes, have tons, and tons of fun..... :^)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): wear his shirt,only his shirt with nothing inside.Its a huge turn on for many guys.
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Look up some websites that sell dildos, they usually offer a range of things lingerie and outfits included, theres one for you - bedroompleasures.co.uk
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (10 November 2008):
Anything lacy or silky will work. Also costumes for roll play like a nurse who needs to exam him, a cop who needs to teach him a lesson, or even a vampire who is turning him into her sex slave works. Those are just a few ideas.
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