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writes:I really need your help. There's this guy at school who I am in love with, everyone else says that he does too. He recently moved 2 our school and I've only known him for 9 weeks and I am already in love with him. I have never felt this way about a guy before. Unfortunatley the only thing keeping us apart is his girlfriend from his old school. All my friends have asked him whether her fancies me, and to each and every one of them he has said yes. I just don't understand why he hasn't split up with his girlfriend. He has told his boy best friend who is also one of my best friends that he hasn't seen her for 3 months and that he doesn't love her any more. I am so confused as to why he just doesn't split up with her because it obviously doesn't seem to be working. I'm trying to get over him but I just can't, I am so attracted to him and I hope he is to me too. Please help me out by advising me what to do. It would mean the world to me. Thank you. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): you shouldn't push him its his decision so you should leave him alone give him time to do what he has to do then he'll end up comin to u. good things come to those who wait. for example im 18 and the love of my life is 22. we had a rocky beginning, on n off, on n off i didnt check anymore bt he never give up on me. he pursued me for 2 years and now we have been 2gether for a while and dont b 2 quick to sleep with him either. ^good luck^ remember b patient.
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reader, Cassandra18  +, writes (9 November 2008):
i thnk u shld just ask him y is he still with her if he likes u... ask him that and c what he says... or move on and stop talkin to him cuz he dsnt kno what he wants
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): If he has been with this girl a long time it probably isn't so easy for him to let go and start over with someone new. He may not love her anymore but they still have history and he may even be afraid that if he does break it off, they won't be able to remain friends. Guys can be really stupid about breakups and so he might even be spending all this time trying to figure out how to do it and not screw it up. I would say talk to him directly about it. There could be many reasons and he may just need a push.
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