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writes:What do you make of this? There is a guy I texts and chat too on MSN, althought I have met him but I dont see him much because he goes to bording school in the week. He told one of my friends that he fancied me. I dont realy feel the same way but hes nice to chat too and you never know. Anyway last weekend he asked if I wanted to go this weekend to see a movie sometime. No definate arrangement but still I took it as a sort of date. Anyway during the week I texted him to ask if he was still ok for this weekend and he texted back 'Sorry what are we doing this weekend, I have a bad memory' so I told him and he said he would ask his parents on friday and text me. Friday came and no text. We had planned to go out on saturday. Midday on saturday I had heard nothing (he has saturday school in the morning) and just stayed at home which was no problem seeing as I had loads of homework anyway. Anyway I didnt hear from him untill just now he logged onto MSN and we are talking and he has mentioned nothing about the movie. Im not upset or anything it doesnt bother me realy Im just a bit confused! Surley his memorys not that bad! And it was him who suggested the movie!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone! In reponse I dont realy like him but we have been friends for years (hes a family friends son)and I did used to fancy him a bit, about a year ago. I have just got out of a relationship with a very very close friend so I know they work the best. When I asked him about his weekend he said he had done nothing. I dont know :S
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): Tell him that you are getting confused and wonder why he said it and then nothing happened. There could be something else going on in his life. I don't mean another girl, just anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): You're right, his memory can't be That Bad! Obviously, something "better" came alone...not necessarilly another girl, it could've been just hanging with the guys. This guy doesn't take you seriously. I would stop contacting him and see what happens. If you do hear from him, play alittle hard to get. If he asks you out (as much as you want to jump at the chance) tell him you're busy and will have to take a rain check. See how he reacts to that. If you lose him, he wasn't worth having!
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reader, that_one_female  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 If he forgot about the movies twice, forget him. It looks like it's an online fling anyways. It also looks as that you reeeeeally like him. That's cute and all, but really, that doesn't seem like it'll last. I'm not questioning the possible relationship between you two, it just seems as if he really doesn't care to make an effort to hang out with you, the fact that he forgets and has to go to a boarding school during the week. Online relationship don't quite work out either. Best relationships, the ones that last longer, are relationships between 2 people who are close friends and that have known eachother for a while. Try looking into friend relationships more than with this one dude who looks too busy for you.
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 buy him a personal organizer. that's all i can say...
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