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Why am I not being trusted ?

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Question - (9 November 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 November 2008)
A female India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my fiance doesn't trusts me. he says i am not virgin after he knew i had boyfriend n we were still friends n also go to his house. to prove myself i had sex wid him n i bleede but he still wants proof n says i have soft breast n did not bleede when he fingered me don't have good vaginal shape? how am i to prove my virginity now?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008):

Cowboy that's because he is an Indian male.He has double standards.He is an alien from Mars.He is fooling the world that he is human.*laughs*

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A male reader, Cowboy United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2008):

Cowboy agony aunt

How does he know that you don't have 'a good vaginal shape'?

If he's a virgin too, then he'd have nothing to compare your vagina to, so he wouldn't know what shape one should be. If he's not a virgin, then why should he expect you to be?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008):

This question doesn't ring true at all.There are some virgins who do not bleed.But since you bled you are definitely a virgin.If you bleed its there on the sheets.You can wave the sheets in front of his face.From the question I understand you bled when you had sex.When he fingered you, you didn't bleed?.For Goodness sake,there is only one hymen.Its not one hymen after another.If you are a genuine poster tell this to him.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2008):

You have done everything you can to prove it.

This is his problem not yours.

He hasn't exactly married you to secure you so why should you have to prove yourself to him.

It sounds like he just said all that to make you have sex with him.

He does not sound like a good boyfriend.

Good Luck!! xx

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